Once upon a time I was friends with a lot of girls. I grew up around a lot of girls so I was comfortable around them. I’ve always been kind of an emotional guy so I seemed to be able to talk to them easier than I do with guys. I used to think that guys were all the same but I think it’s more about guys intentionally TRYING to be the same just so that they will be accepted by each other. But that is another story.
I have always had guy friends as well. In fact around guys I was always sort of the leader of the pack, the crews biggest mouthpiece, and the teams ambassador to women( I was the only one not afraid to talk to them). It’s easy to get along with guys but not necessarily to have a friendship that goes past football, pizza and video games. Guys can be very shallow when it comes to friendship.
Fast forward to the present: I don’t really have any girl friends. In fact I now have all guy friends! In ways it’s good. You don’t have to invest any feelings into a friendship with guys so nobody gets hurt. They are down to watch sports with you and eat with you all the time. Friendships are about as deep as a puddle but it is what it is. No girlfriends= no drama, but sometimes I miss the drama, lol.
So I guess my question is do you have friends of the opposite sex? Do you get along with them better or worse than with same sex?
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I don't know who i get a long with better.
All I can say is girls can be shallow as friends too. but yeah i guess they are more drama, lol. the amount of drama depends on the girl i guess though. oh yeah, and guys have drama too, don't you think ?
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